Some female condoms come pre-lubricated, and others come with a separately packaged lubricant. If a client needs additional lubrication, she can also use clean water, saliva, or a lubricant made of water, glycol, or silicone. She also can use oil-based products such as coconut oil or butter with nitrile or polyurethane female condoms, but not with latex female condoms. Oil damages latex.